Wednesday, May 6, 2020

Why do my parents always put me down?

Wally Gower: Okay. Since they WANT you to call the cops on them. Do it. It'll shut their assese up. Then, find a way to take it to court. See if the court will let you aunt of grandmother take custody of you and the rest of your brothers and sisters. I mean, since you only have the clothes on your back, there's nothing to lose right?

Nia Monopoli: Wow!Let me begin by saying that need to protect yourself - talk to the police, a teacher, anyone and everyone who will listen. Some things you mention are typical parent stuff - complaining about $, warning you about video game addictions, etc - but to swear at you, make your sibling sit in poopy diapers all day, and to hit you, is totally unacceptable. I am not sure where you live but need to protect yourself and your siblings. Have you tried talking to your mom when your dad isn't around? Appealing to her innate motherly instincts might work. Tell her (calmly) how your father's actions have made you feel. Tell her ! you want to feel safe in your home and to not have to worry about your siblings when you're not around. Again, calmly talk to her - people always shut down when confronted abruptly (especially the victims of spousal abuse). Where do you live? Is there something I can do to help?...Show more

Erica Bottaro: i think your dad is a cheap lazy immature jerk that needs to grow up you say your 17 so you probably only need a few more months and why hasnt your dad been accused for abusing a child either way i would purposely get him to start beat you while your twin calls the police and try to make it so that when the police come hes still hitting you also your mom sucks she is a horrible mother also when your 18 you should think about getting custody of your little sister sorry if this didnt help you though im pretty sure it didnt...Show more

Granville Stray: No matter what u do,they will always think their right.

Wilfredo Muldoon: I wish for you that your paren! ts didn't make you feel this way...but please know that you ar! e of great value! Is there another adult in your life who you trust? Do you have a church family...or a pastor you could talk with? I'm assuming you aren't yet old enough to drive, so even a guidance counselor at school might be able to help you. Most of all though, know that you're parents aren't right to put you down. That is no way to treat anyone! Let alone your own child. It's hard to say why they do this to you, but stay strong! Good luck and God bless....Show more

Dulcie Edis: You seem really troubled typing such a long question.

Fritz Hawkey: I'll admit as I started reading this I thought this was a typical teenager rant but then I read the whole thing and while I can't give you any answers, I can give you my sympathy. Parents always give their kids chores to do (I hate doing the heavy stuff as well), but the verbal abuse is too much, although 10:30 isn't really that late at all cause I get yelled at to wake up at 8am on weekends. I hope at least writing! this out made you feel a little better. You could always try calling one of those helplines, since you can just have someone anonymous to rant to or give you advice on what you could do. If you really hate living with your parents so much, maybe you could live with your other relatives again or wait till you're an adult and leave....Show more

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